The reality of the "friendzone"

I think the “friendzone” can be summed up this way:

The friendzone is a guy making the common mistake of being so attracted to a woman that you can’t see her faults, or listen to what she’s really telling you. When she say’s you’re a nice guy, she’s actually being nice by not saying, “I’m not attracted to you”. You are not a nice guy. If you were a nice guy then you wouldn’t be angry that she doesn’t want you, nor would you be chasing her.  Think of it, it’s your ego telling you that YOU are the right guy for her. If a girl you weren’t attracted to was hanging around you all the time you’d do the guy thing, which is fuck her then ignore her. If you’re a girl that’s got a guy that’s always hanging around, you do the girl-thing, drop hints and take advantage of his desire. When a girl tells you that you are “such a nice guy, and I wish you could find someone special”, she’s really saying: “I wish you could find a girlfriend and bother her for a while”. Meanwhile, you hear the former and reply, “But you are someone special…”

 It’s wrong on both ends and could be done with quickly by ripping off the band-aid and telling the truth to each other.

happy trails

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Logic of the average woman

"I can't properly articulate my side of the argument, so FUCK YOU!"

9/13

Michael Caine

EVIL DEAD (2013)

This painting is a bit different for me. It is non-representational in image, but not in theme. This is my impressions from the film Evil Dead. I started this painting when the Apparition logo came onscreen and finished it when the final credit sequence stopped.
I used a pushpin as a focus/vanishing point and worked from there with red and black ink, massaging energy into the board and keeping a color balance as the film played in the background. Interestingly enough there were some parallels happening between scenes and painting stages.