I think the “friendzone” can be summed up this way:
The friendzone is a guy making the common mistake of being
so attracted to a woman that you can’t see her faults, or listen to what she’s
really telling you. When she say’s you’re a nice guy, she’s actually being nice
by not saying, “I’m not attracted to you”. You are not a nice guy. If you were
a nice guy then you wouldn’t be angry that she doesn’t want you, nor would you
be chasing her. Think of it, it’s your
ego telling you that YOU are the right guy for her. If a girl you weren’t
attracted to was hanging around you all the time you’d do the guy thing, which
is fuck her then ignore her. If you’re a girl that’s got a guy that’s always
hanging around, you do the girl-thing, drop hints and take advantage of his
desire. When a girl tells you that you are “such a nice guy, and I wish you
could find someone special”, she’s really saying: “I wish you could find a
girlfriend and bother her for a while”. Meanwhile, you hear the former and
reply, “But you are someone special…”
It’s wrong on both
ends and could be done with quickly by ripping off the band-aid and telling the
truth to each other.
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